The Ties That Bind

Sometimes we are conflicted between something that is actually occurring, our fear of it occurring and our imaginary, quite vivid, experience of it occurring. We can become so trapped between these three realities that we cannot free ourselves and act from a center of balance in our open heart center.

An example might be:

1. Rejection - the experience of actually being rejected
2. Fear of rejection
3. Imaginary (or projected) rejection

Fear of rejection is one of the most common human fears. It can paralyze us, distort our inner landscape and counterproductively impact how we relate to and interact with others. Sometimes we are aware of this dynamic and sometimes we are not. Yet, it still runs in our subconscious affecting the way we move through life.

It is a relatively simple matter to work with a trained DWS Master Facilitator to clear the various components within the subconscious mind that are non-beneficially affecting your life - or to learn to do this for yourself.

A facilitator will typically do a brief intake process to find out the result you want and how rejection, for example, is showing up in your life. This allows the facilitator to connect to Source and gain clarity about what you are asking for, a key element in the clearing process. In short order, the facilitator will receive Guidance from Source about the sequence of processes needed to help you clear the underlying cause of your fear of rejection.

I worked with a wonderful young lady several years ago who experienced this. As it turned out, her mother had withheld affection from her as a child. Often very busy with working outside the home, caring for four children and their home in the absence of a husband, she was simply exhausted. My client understood this intellectually, but she still had been unable to shift her deep-seated feelings of not being good enough to get the love and affection she needed from her mother. The loss of her father due to an early death, which at the subconscious level of the mind she interpreted as rejection, added to her challenge.

It took several sessions to meticulously follow the various strands to gain her complete clearing. The various processes used included past and current life clearing, healing of the paternal and maternal bloodlines, transmuting disempowering tribal and core beliefs, transforming patterns and attachments, removing some programs she had running, and various others. With every session, she reported feeling lighter and lighter.

Over time her life changed considerably. She developed professionally because she no longer was constricted by her fear of rejection. She became a compelling public speaker, a fine manager and, ultimately, a strategic executive. She met a wonderful man. After several years of building a great relationship they decided to marry and have children.

She has become very self-aware and continues to be grateful for the changes she made in her life through the DWS work.

Rejection is simply one example. Others might include fear of having power and abusing it, fear of poverty, fear of pain, fear of dying and so forth. When we are in the grip of these triple binds, it can feel like there is no way out, when in fact there is. Go to the DWS Directory of Master Facilitator, scan the various landing pages, call the person you relate to and begin the journey to set yourself free.

COMING HOME

For the most part of my life, I was searching for that place that would make me feel 'like home'. I didn't feel at home where I was and always felt lonely and out of place.

When I was 10 years old I thought I got a glimpse of it when my family moved to the US for a couple years. We are German. We lived in the San Francisco Bay Area. Those were my favorite two years of my childhood.

After we moved back to Germany I made it my goal to move back to the United States. I could not be happy, I was desperate and thought that once I lived in the US again, I will be 'home'; I will be happy.

Twenty years later, mission accomplished. I was asked by the company I worked for to help with a project in the United States. FINALLY! Finally I would be 'home' and I would be happy.

So it came as a surprise to me when I still felt empty and lonely after my return to the US. My heart was still aching for that feeling of being 'home'. Was I from another planet and on the wrong one at the wrong time? Seriously, that was my experience and those were thoughts I had because obviously 'home' wasn't to be found here after all. That was 12 years ago.

I started a journey, searching for what would make me feel whole,safe and 'at home'.

A few tumultuous, hard and sad years later I stopped searching the outside world for answers and started looking within. This is when Source led me to Ashley and DWS. This opened a whole new world and perspective to me. I had been so disconnected from God due to my aversion to the institution of religion and the pain and suffering it has brought humanity over the centuries.

Through my journey with DWS I healed so much that was keeping me closed and frozen and started opening my heart and my whole being again. Now I know where home is for me. It really is, as they say, where the heart is and where my heart is centered in God. When I spend time with and am connected to Source I feel safe and I feel at home no matter where I am.

My life has become brighter, more joyous and I receive challenges with an open heart and an amazing support team that includes Source, the Archangels and other Light beings as well as my DWS family. It is the most magical and heartwarming feeling.

I wish for all beings to experience this joy as they fully step into the circle of life. It is my journey now to be of service and hold the space of healing and growth for all whom Source guides to come to work with me.

May all beings be free and filled with Love and Light.

Namaste.

Sky Handke is a DWS Master Facilitator, a Reiki Master, certified life coach and pilates trainer, movement and meditation teacher and founder of dare2Byou. Before her career in body-mind-spirit connection and wellness, Sky spent 15 years climbing the corporate ladder and is always excited to support people in their journey moving from rat-race to BE-ing and from achieving in the outside world to nurturing and growing the inside world.

Alongside her passion for wellness, harmony, movement and love, Sky enjoys spending time in nature reconnecting with Mother Earth. Moving here from Germany 12 years ago she is now going through the process of receiving US citizenship. Sky lives in Marin County with her soon-to-be husband, Joe, (Labor Day Weekend!) and loving cat Seema.

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  • Email: sky@daretobeyourself.com

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