To Return to Oneness
We Must Embrace Duality

In third dimensional reality we live in a world of contrasts, e.g., wealthy versus poor, beautiful versus ugly, brilliant versus dumb, creative versus unimaginative. Each of these is an opposite pair, with the poles located at different points on a continuum. As human beings, over the millennia in many lifetimes, we sometimes became 'hooked' into one or the other or both poles.

This means we believed the illusion of duality was real. We became ensnared in the cycle of birth and rebirth in order that we might continue to play the game, replaying our personal dramas over again and again with the hope of 'getting it right', in a manner of speaking. We might have explored opposite poles for the purpose of learning, or taken opposite roles -- or some other configuration calculated by the Divine Matrix to facilitate our learning.

All of this because long, long ago we decided to explore 'knowledge' rather than 'connection' to Source. In order to do this we had to devolve from our Light bodies into denser matter. As we became more dense, living life became much more challenging. Rather quickly, we forgot Who We Really Are, that we are the microcosm of the macrocosm. Not only did we separate from the greatness of the God/Goddess, we separated from our own greatness.

At this time on Earth, many of us are being awakened to higher and higher levels of consciousness. In the early stages of this awakening process, we are often in denial, in resistance and persistently do not believe that there is even another option available. For some people who are in this category, sometimes the Divine Matrix gives them the great gift of a near death experience (NDE). For an interesting example of an NDE, follow this link:

http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2012/10/07/proof-of-heaven-a-doctor-s-experience-with-the-afterlife.html

Others may have a transcendent experience of one kind or another -- or their hearts may simply start to open. For others, the path to awakening may be long and arduous. The Divine Matrix may appear unpredictable -- even capricious -- from the perspective of a typical human being. As I understand it, this and every other experience is related to karma and the multitude of choices the individual has made over many, many lifetimes. Whatever our path at any given moment in time as we understand it, acceptance rather than resistance, is one of the prerequisites for progressive levels of awakening.

The Divine loves a paradox. We must embrace duality in order to be freed from it. We must see the beauty within ugliness, the majesty within the mundane. the Light within the darkness -- and come to understand that all is Divine.

This exemplifies being 'in the world, but not of it'. Put another way, that means we engage fully with life -- but we take it lightly. We no longer get 'hooked' emotionally into the drama of the illusion.

An example of this might be a woman who was betrayed in a former life by her husband, sent to an austere convent and did not accept the changes in her life and find the beauty in it. From the higher perspective, she had the option of building relationships in the convent, being of service, finding the simple beauties in her everyday life. Contrast that with encoding anger and rage toward her husband, strong feelings of having been betrayed, resistance toward her new life leading to refusal to build new relationships, be of service and experience the magic to be found through an open, forgiving heart.

A more mundane example would be going to an intense movie about the above story. One viewer takes it seriously, becomes upset and allows it to ruin the rest of her day. She can't see the possibilities that the herione had before her. She fell for the drama of betrayal, anger, rage, and lack of forgiveness -- the ruined life of a victim.

Another viewer in the same audience rewrites the story as it unfolds, finds the beauty, sees the opportunities for profound growth, is uplifted and goes on about her own life in a peaceful way after she leaves the theatre.

These describe very different ways to face the challenges of life, from which very few of us are spared.

Some call this way of being surrender. I call it Grace.

My Personal Miracle

I have been married to my wonderful husband for 40 years and we have loved each other very much for all of those years. He is a great father, a good provider -- and a 'man's man'. As a 'man's man', sometimes the gentleness I needed as a woman was not forthcoming. Over the decades we worked on this with some, but not enough, success.

This came to a head when I broke my hip. My husband had a very hard time accessing his empathy and gently providing for my care. For example, he was very rough with me when he had to bathe me and forgot to prepare meals for me for extended periods of time. Finally, in desperation I asked my bother and his wife to come pick me up and take me home with them. I was heartsick that this drastic action on my part was necessary.

My sister-in-law suggested I call Ashley. It didn't take much discussion. I needed a miracle and I was told she might be able to help me co-create one with God.

I found it very reassuring that Ashley was calm, warm and got right down to work. We worked three nights in a row on the phone for about an hour each time. Within the week, my husband left me tender messages about how much he missed me. Toward the end of the week, he was asking me out on dates! Really great dates. He gave me long-stemmed roses, cooked dinners for me, took me on a picnic. Most importantly -- and differently -- he talked with me about our relationship, showing emotions including caring, tenderness, kindness, sweetness, and love. And he was listening deeply.

By the second week, I realized I was being courted by this wonderful man for the second time in my life. By the end of that week, I returned home -- to a very different husband. 180 degrees different -- and he has sustained his astonishingly new behaviors without one moment of backsliding for several months.

For the first time in forty years, I am married to the man I fell in love with.

Through the workshops offered in the DWS mystery school, all are empowered to identify incongruencies with Highest Good & congruencies with what is not, create clear two-way communication with the Divine & transform past lives, trauma, disempowering genetic & behavioral inheritances through family bloodlines, disempowering core beliefs, karmic, mental, emotional & egoic patterns, programs, attachments, fragmentation of soul, personality & separation from Spirit, identification & removal of Dark Teachers & implants, as well as dynamic relationship work with the archetypes, concepts, ideas, people, places & things that hold us back from moving into our Light Bodies.

When we clear these & other 'buggy code' from our field we become progressively able tohold more Light & can be of greater service in the uplifting of human consciousnessin preparation for the Ascension.

We do this through advanced energetic healing workshops, private sessions, speaking engagements, and spiritual retreats in partnership with Source, the Archangels, Ascended Masters, and All Beings of Light.